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“As more women are recognizing their own neurodivergence, Julie has gifted us with a beautifully written and incredibly relatable memoir. Readers will come away feeling seen, understood, and never again alone.” — Emily W. King, PhD, child psychologist and author of the Learn with Dr. Emily Substack
A funny, unflinchingly honest, and deeply compassionate memoir about one woman’s experience of raising an autistic child while discovering she is also “on the spectrum”
Almost 10 years after learning that her son is autistic, Julie Green was also diagnosed, shedding light on a lifetime of feeling othered and misunderstood. Motherness traces Julie’s journey from childhood to early motherhood, when she must advocate for her son while navigating her own struggles.
With more girls and women being diagnosed in the last decade — many of them later in life — the face of autism is changing. Motherness provides a rich, intensely personal account of what it is like to be autistic, through the lens of both a mother and child. Topics include sensory processing, meltdowns and shutdowns, masking, empathy, alexithymia, bullying, elopement, special interests, disordered eating, gender diversity, twice exceptionality, and more.
Motherness is a story about accepting your child while learning to accept yourself. This extraordinary, groundbreaking memoir speaks to the great challenges and great joys of autism, providing valuable insights to parents of autistic children, adults newly diagnosed or questioning their place on the spectrum, and anyone seeking a greater understanding of neurodiversity.
Julie Greens debut memoir Motherness is informative offering interesting insights into a multifaceted history of autism spectrum disorder and it is also a deeply felt personal account of what it is like to raise a neurodivergent child as a neurodivergent mother But much greater than the sum of those parts Greens gorgeous writing carries this deeply human story which is filled with curiosity honesty humour and above all love Harriet Alida Lye author ofNatural KillerandLet It Destroy You
Mothernessis all about loving the child youre raising and accepting the parent you are A fiercely honest and wildly compassionate memoirAnn Douglas author ofParenting Through the Storm
Mothernessis powerful thoughtprovoking and frankly impossible to put down It left me questioning my own assumptions and considering how we can create a world where autistic individuals are truly understood supported and celebrated Ingrid Smith Parent Educator and Coach
Mothernessis that rarest of booksa memoir that looks inward but also out shining a light on the personal in a way that refracts out to dazzle us all In her unflinching and yet wholly tender focus on seeingseeing and celebrating her child and then also ultimately seeing and celebrating herselfJulie Green has charted a path for all of us parent and nonparent alike to follow into a brilliant better world Amanda Leduc author ofDisfigured On Fairy Tales Disability and Making Space
Raw honest and thoughtprovokingMothernesswill resonate with any neurodivergent parent who recognizes parts of themselves in their child and wants to embrace these common threads to foster deeper connection and acceptance Debbie Reber founder of Tilt Parenting and author ofDifferently Wired Raising an Exceptional Child in a Conventional World
As more women arerecognizing their own neurodivergence Julie has gifted us with a beautifully written and incredibly relatable memoir Readers will come away feeling seen understood and never again alone Emily W King PhD child psychologist and author of the Learn with Dr Emily Substack
Mothernessis a beautifully told deeply validating account of latediscovered autism and the intersecting experience of being both an autistic woman and the mother of an autistic child This is more than a memoir its a mirror for those who have long felt unseen bringing visibility validation and hope to a new generation navigating late discovery motherhood and identity Catherine Asta author ofRediscoveredand host ofThe Late Discovered Club podcast
Julie M Greens Motherness is a beautifully vulnerable memoir that explores the often unspoken layers of parenting neurodivergence and the radical acceptance that love demands Subtitled A Memoir of Generational Autism Parenthood and Radical Acceptance this book is a quiet revelationand an important read for anyone who wants to better understand the lived experience of autism especially within families Green writes with a voice that is raw poetic and grounded Curating Edits
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288 Pages
8.5in * 5.5in * 0.66in
0.77lb
September 23, 2025
9781770418028
eng
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