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The Way Disabled People Love Each Other

The latest poetry collection by the award-winning author of Tonguebreaker, Care Work, and The Future Is Disabled

Lambda Award-winning poet, memoirist, and disability justice movement worker Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha returns with their long-awaited fifth collection of poems, written over five years of pandemic lockdown, during which time they lost a cherished friend and comrade and met their estranged parents’ end of life.

The Way Disabled People Love Each Other is a fierce crip reckoning with all the ways disabled people love each other, in all our complexity. A book that will speak to any kind of griever, but particularly disabled BIPOC queer trans ones sitting with the endless mass grief and possibility of this time, and those with violent family from whom we still yearn to claw out beauty from the trauma rubble. It’s a road map for survivors looking for something that’s neither a happy Hollywood ending nor a transformative justice fairy tale – not the healing we wished for, but the healing we find anyway.

This collection is a rigorous, rueful documentation of a specific time of pandemic fascist grief and possibility. Brimming with odes, elegies, and mourning songs, these poems sparkle like switchblades and offer new possibilities for love, grief, and memory.

AUTHOR

Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha

Winner of the 2012 Lambda Literary Award, Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha is a queer disabled femme writer, teacher and performer of Burgher/Tamil Sri Lankan, Roma and Irish ascent. The author of Bodymap, Love Cake and Consensual Genocide and the co-editor of The Revolution Starts At Home: Confronting Intimate Violence in Activist Communities, her writing has been widely anthologized. She is the co-founder of the queer people of colour arts incubator Mangos With Chili, a lead artist with Sins Invalid and co-founder of Toronto’s Asian Arts Freedom School. In 2010 she was named one of the Feminist Press’ 40 Feminists Under 40 Shaping the Future. Her first memoir, Dirty River, was published by Arsenal Pulp Press in fall 2015.


Reviews

Leah is our most fearless chronicler of crip life which means theyve got one of the biggest hearts alive in a body that also wields the fiercest pen Their work has been a lodestar for so many of us who have had our hearts broken by ableisms insidious and rampant effects and this book is yet another shining pinnacle to follow arriving as Leah often does at exactly the right moment Not only does Leah know the specific and abundant universe of this heartbreak in their bones but they also know how to transmute that brokenness into image and story action and catharsis solidarity and legacy This book is a major achievement a document that shimmers with crip survival grief loss pain love and life We always say about Leah that their books are urgent of this time and the necessities of the present but for me they are at once an ancient soothsayer a reporter from the front lines and the one well be reading in 100 years What can I say Theyre the best of us Johanna Hedva author of How to Tell When We Will Die On Pain Disability and Doom



This is Leah Lakshmi PiepznaSamarasinha who always saves our lives always steals us back to ourselves always insists on the gritty everyday of survival But in this particular collection of elegies laments spells and witness is Leah at their most June Jordan their most generous offering the grieving heart our grieving hearts need Alexis Pauline Gumbs author of Survival Is a Promise The Eternal Life of Audre Lorde



Leah Lakshmi PiepznaSamarasinhas The Way Disabled People Love Each Other hinges on the question Who mourns when disabled people die This as PiepznaSamarasinha knows cannot be answered without touching this inquirys twin Who celebrates disabled life Every bloody intimate elegiac page of The Way Disabled People Love Each Other is an offering to the gods of disabled vivacity and a bullet launched another centimetre closer to that which seeks to kill us Cyree Jarelle Johnson author of SLINGSHOT and WATCHNIGHT



With adept hardwon magic Leah Lakshmi PiepznaSamarasinha transforms the endlessness of disabled grief into an endlessness rooted in remembering celestial earthly everywhere loving fiercely wordlessly imperfectly and surviving while howling and breaking The Way Disabled People Love Each Other is what poetry is meant to be a photobook an altar and a composite of community crip wisdom you return to over and over when nothing feels real and you need something that is This is a collection where the pages sizzle ancestors cackle and dance with you smoke lingers in the room and you know youll never have to fight alone Jane Shi author of echolalia echolalia



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Dimensions:

120 Pages
8.00in * 6.00in *
250.00gr

Published:

March 24, 2026

ISBN:

9781834050300

Book Subjects:

POETRY / LGBTQ+

Language:

eng

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