“It’s a book that doesn’t sugarcoat the challenges of building a family across borders, with children who acutely remember what it’s like to have been abandoned. It also lays bare the sometimes-unanticipated impact on marital relationships, on a person’s confidence in themselves as a parent.” ? National Post

“Detachment: An Adoption Memoir is a frank, tense and fully engaging story of the processes and consequences of adoption. And it’s more than this.” ? Winnipeg Free Press

“Detachment is a startling portrait of a real Modern Family?cobbled together across continents, haunted by old wars and buried trauma, held together by the stubborn human need for love and connection, for belonging. Maurice Mierau’s attempt to understand the people who made him what he is, while holding his own family together, is completely compelling: brutally honest, harrowing and compassionate.” ? Michael Crummey, author of Galore

“With wry honesty, Maurice Mierau surprises the reader again and again with the failure, the vulnerability, the surprise, and the tenderness of relationships. For all its coolly detached tone, this story has incredible heart. And the children. Oh, the children.” ? David Bergen, author of The Age of Hope

“In the first half of Detachment, Maurice Mierau tells a fascinating story of working through the byzantine beaurocracy of the adoption industry to bring two boys home from Ukraine. In the second half, he recounts the hardest part of the journey, learning the emotional language of being a dad. Maurice Mierau is a smart and unsentimental storyteller, and I loved this book.” ? Joan Thomas, author of Reading by Lightning